me imagining myself mentoring the youth: “and that’s why you gotta be your best lover first & foremost… because if you don’t? next thing you know the first person who turns you on is getting the key to the city” i could save so many lives fr this & “repeat it with me everyone: ‘being sexy is not enough.’ there’s a lot of sexy people out there but that doesn’t mean you need to get involved with them. screen for if they are whack.” younger me worried i was too strict but now i know i was wise